1Co7

Paul's desire for every believer was to have "undivided devotion to Christ". He was not "anti-relationships", he was primarily interested in Christ's followers actually following Christ!

Those of us who are married and have children are divided in what it means to "follow Jesus". Following Jesus means being a good spouse and a good parent! Our relationship with Christ is complicated with our other God-given relationships. The single person can be wholly devoted in mind, time and body.

Paul was not discouraging marriage or relationships. He was elevating the most important relationship. Live to please God! It's easier when we don't have other God-given relational responsibilities.